Para Para Paradise

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

NEW ME

Well... the new me will be diff from my previous image.
The new me opens up opportunies to make more new frens, any marketing new plans that can make money, any social service need my help i'll like to volunteer too.. =D

I use to be 'possessive' to a certain extend (mild) but i chose another path which opens up my life and the word 'possessive' to me will be almost close to zero.

The new me give myself alot more freedom and same goes to my loveones. We'll meet as an when we need. Text each other as an when we like. Have *** as an when we want. There's not alot of restrictions in this 'open r/s' but we do not follow all the rules in a real open relationship.

the meaning of open r/s also means a relationship (usually between two people) in which participants are free to take other partners. ... ...etc<- i dont like it this way.

i'll have my simplific version of a 'open relationship'. it certainly involves beening faithful,love,...... etc and not having ONS behind each other's back.

There's just more freedom n less restriction in a 'open relationship' than a áttached' status.

When we come to a point when both are ready to settle down as oné. mature enough, We will automatic change our status to 'attached' mode and live together, have our babies... ...

i''m ready to settle down but somehow i felt we should go thru the 'open relationship' stage 1st before any commitment. Learn to know each other more, learn to love, to care for others when we have more freedom and less restriction.

It seems easy but it may not be easy i tink. i hope it will work out.
we need to give den we will recieve as there is no free lunch in the world.