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Saturday, November 11, 2006

WHAT IS LOVE?


Definitions of "LOVE"

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3. sexual passion or desire.

4. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

5. affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.

6. to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).

7. to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.

8. to have love or affection for another person; be in love. —Verb phrase

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Sometimes we must learn to compromise in love. Its very important if not its not going to make it to the end no matter its a BGR, GGR or BBR. if we don't give and take between each other during the dating/attached stage then how to we live together in future? Of cos i did not think so far ahead but i dream that someday it will happen. Will it be like what the fairy tales/storybooks narrated? "the king n princess live happily ever after." i can only dream on in a fantasy world of mine. This is somehow hidden somewhere in my mind, seldom dig up.buried deep within. It sinks down deeper n deeper... *weeps*
*weeps* cos in the practical world, there is no perfect r/s. There is no happily ever after. But problem after problems then followed by solutions, ups n downs, laughter and sadness, bonded tightly and lonely. This is life. God made us this way integrated with feelings into his world. We got to manage it ourself, to the best. I'm trying!

We must trust each other in love too. if not its also not going to make it. In the journey of love i often made many mistakes and from there i tried very hard to learn from the mistakes i've made. To be a better person. A better BF for YOU! Trust is one of the basic criteria in love. If i love him, i will trust him. I will be very tired if i need to think of all kinds of senseless and cooked up indecent acts when YOU are with others. i dun want to think in this way because i grew up le. i wan to be happy in a r/s. i wan to love you truly madly deeply.
I dont need a famous or rich perfect lover. i juz need a simple person will do. Simple and not complicated. Dun lie to me for anything you said, all i want is the truth from your mouth. Hope you can do it truthfully..
I need the courage to fall for you DEEP. Can u give me the confidence by showing MORE care? More care doesn't mean i need you to buy me many things for me. i'm already flattered by your 'sweet' rythms and sms. Besides this i need real 'physical' kind of care. I'm not a pervert so i am not referring to xxx. Hope you get what i mean.
to be continued...